
Growing your sales: what you must know first, Episode 261
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The 3 Things Every Ecommerce Store Owner Must Learn to Grow Sales (Without Spending a Fortune on Ads)
If you’re looking for a way to grow your sales without pouring money into ads, you’re about to hear one of the most effective (and misunderstood) strategies for ecommerce store owners.
This is the very first thing to learn as an e-commerce store owner. To get sales, we need to acquire customers.
That’s the short-term strategy that works—and it really works—but if you keep doing it past a certain point, it can actually stall your growth.
Here’s what you need to know about the three things every ecommerce store owner must learn: how to get customers, how to keep them coming back, and when to stop doing what’s worked so far and pivot to something new.
Let’s break it down.
Step 1: Get Customers—It’s the First (and Most Expensive) Thing You’ll Learn
Acquiring a customer simply means getting that first time buyer. That’s the whole game when you’re just starting out. And getting that first-time customer is going to cost you. Not just in money, but in time, brain space, and effort. Basically the sum of all your marketing is how you get customers. And marketing doesn’t come to most of us naturally.
You might be using organic posts, SEO, email, SMS, Meta ads, Google ads, influencers, maybe even Pinterest or TikTok. Whether it costs dollars or just your time and energy, it all counts.
Want to know what it’s actually costing you to acquire customers?
“Choose a defined period of time – at least six months, a year is even better. Simply add up the cost of all your marketing and divide that cost by the number of first-time customers you get.”
That number is your Customer Acquisition Cost (CAC). And it’s probably higher than you think.
Step 2: Make Each Customer Worth More
Once you’ve figured out how to acquire customers, it’s time to get smart about keeping them—and getting them to buy again. We’ve got to set ourselves up for success by maximizing the lifetime value of that customer.
If your product is replenishable, make it easy for them to re-order. If it’s not? You still need other products that appeal to the same person—don’t go inventing something totally different for a new audience.
This is where your profit starts to show up. This is where your sales become predictable and reliable.
So how do you do it? Stay visible.
Here are a few ways to stay top of mind:
- Set up a post-purchase email automation: It’s a thank you for becoming a customer, and a warmup to place a second order.
- Include them in weekly email campaigns and events: Give people a reason to buy
- Launch new products or variants: Even a new scent, a new color, or a collectible can get existing buyers excited to come back.
- Create VIP offers or memberships: If you have customers who buy regularly… consider a group, like a Facebook VIP group.
- Keep posting organically: Frequency is key
The Strategy Most Store Owners Rely On
Here’s what most ecommerce owners do once they’ve got a customer base: they launch more products to the same audience.
They don’t have to have a big ad spend. These are mostly things that they can do without a lot of cost, and it leads to an increase in their conversion rate.
It works. It gets sales. It builds momentum.
But…
The Metric You MUST Watch
There’s one number that tells you when it’s time to shift gears: your Returning Customer Rate.
Go to your Shopify dashboard and have a look at your returning customer percentage.
Here’s how to read it:
- Under 30%? You’ve got room to grow with your current customer base.
- 30–40%? Sweet spot. You’re balancing new customer acquisition and keeping current customers happy.
- Over 40%? That’s a red flag.
When you’re too reliant on returning customers, your growth starts to shrink. You’re constantly creating new SKUs just to keep up. Inventory bloats. Profit slips. And the number of new customers coming in isn’t enough to replace the ones who stop buying. You’re actually losing more customers than you’re gaining, and so your pool of buyers is actually shrinking every month.
Step 3: Know When It’s Time to Shift Gears
If your Returning Customer Rate is climbing too high, it’s time to pivot. You want to shift your focus to going out and looking for more customers. Knowing full well that you are already set up to maximize your lifetime value.
Here’s what that looks like in practice:
- Stop creating endless new SKUs.
- Focus on selling your existing products to new buyers.
- Resist the voice that says your customers “need something new.”
“Everything you have in your store is new to the people that aren’t your customers yet.”
That’s the mindset shift. You don’t need more products—you need more people.
Take Action: What’s Your Next Move?
Here’s what I want you to do next:
- Check your Returning Customer Rate in your Shopify dashboard.
- If it’s under 30%, focus on getting current customers to buy again.
- If it’s over 40%, switch gears and put your attention on acquiring new customers.
That’s the fastest way for sure to grow your sales without spending a ton of money on ads.
Growth Isn’t Magic—It’s Knowing What to Do Next
Growing your sales isn’t just about more hustle. It’s about learning these three things:
- How to get customers
- How to keep them buying
- When to go find more of them
If you want to grow your sales, you have to make this switch. So go check your dashboard. Then get to work!
RELATED LINKS:
How Melissa reduced her cost of acquiring a customer by 44%
Do you even know what it costs to get a new customer?
https://thesocialsalesgirls.com/do-you-even-know-what-it-costs-to-get-a-new-customer-episode-187/
The piece of the puzzle you’ve been missing
https://thesocialsalesgirls.com/the-piece-of-the-puzzle-youve-been-missing-episode-258/
Ready For Results? I Think You Should Hear This
https://thesocialsalesgirls.com/ready-for-results-i-think-you-should-hear-this-episode-243/